A post-it note makes the child stop crying!

Children aged 3-6 are crying, just a post-it note to stop them crying! It is said that the child’s face is three months old, and when he says it changes, we often feel helpless to the sudden cry of the child. In fact, many adults don't know how to take care of their hearts, thinking that the crying of a child is unreasonable, and it only takes a while to "rain over the sky".

In fact, crying is just a kind of emotional catharsis of children. Young children may not be able to describe their inner emotions in accurate language, and even they do not understand emotional self-adjustment like adults, so they encounter some difficulties with words. The emotion described can only be solved by "crying". Blocking is worse than sparse. As parents, we should let the children's emotions be vented through guidance, so as to stop the children's crying.

So how do you let your children vent their emotions in a short period of time and stop crying in a short period of time? When the child starts crying, take out a post-it note and a pen. How do these two things help the child to stop crying? First, ask why the child is crying. And asked him if he could draw it to himself to see how angry he was.

At this time, children usually take the sticky notes and pens and draw on the sticky notes. Generally, children draw very hard when they are angry, and the sticky notes are drawn with a mess of lines, and the lines fill the whole sticky note. But as time passed by, every time the child finished drawing, the cry was less than before, and the handwriting on the sticky notes became less and less. Until the last one, there was only a small dot on the post-it note. At this time, the child was no longer angry, and stopped crying.

In the past, when similar things happened, parents always reasoned with their children so that they don't cry. If he still cries loudly, parents will even scold the child and tell him not to cry anymore. However, the effect of this is very small, and it often fails to stop the child from crying as he expects, and sometimes even crying louder and louder.

Who said that children have no emotions when they are young? Finding a way for children to vent their negative emotions is what we parents should do.

When a child feels angry, parents need to first affirm the child's emotions, and let the child vent his anger by "drawing the anger" on post-it notes. Let her know that even extreme anger can be accepted and understood. After venting in this way, the child calms down and is more able to keep the boundaries of the adult's plan.

Summary of parenting methods: When the child is crying because of emotional ups and downs, two steps to calm the child.

First affirm his emotions, and secondly guide the children to find a way to vent their emotions, such as using post-it notes.